Comments on: First Date Faux Pas http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas Wed, 25 Jan 2012 13:21:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: 45 Articles of Dating No No’s – What Not To Do, Say, or Wear » Tradeland Article Directory http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-1110 45 Articles of Dating No No’s – What Not To Do, Say, or Wear » Tradeland Article Directory Thu, 19 May 2011 01:25:26 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-1110 [...] Unbrelievable – Personal story of a first date gone wrong, along with tips for readers. [...] [...] Unbrelievable – Personal story of a first date gone wrong, along with tips for readers. [...]

]]> By: Clothes Make the Man http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-391 Clothes Make the Man Mon, 10 May 2010 12:49:03 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-391 [...] you have everything else up to par as well. To see other great outfits to wear on dates,what other dating mistakes you might be making, or small gestures you should do that you might not even have considered, head over to [...] [...] you have everything else up to par as well. To see other great outfits to wear on dates,what other dating mistakes you might be making, or small gestures you should do that you might not even have considered, head over to [...]

]]> By: Awesome | unbrelievable http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-367 Awesome | unbrelievable Thu, 06 May 2010 19:40:53 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-367 [...] already mentioned this one in my First Date Faux Pas post, but this is so clever, and wins so many brownie points. I’ve seen this done in a few [...] [...] already mentioned this one in my First Date Faux Pas post, but this is so clever, and wins so many brownie points. I’ve seen this done in a few [...]

]]> By: Leggo my Ego | unbrelievable http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-284 Leggo my Ego | unbrelievable Thu, 15 Apr 2010 03:07:03 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-284 [...] I have touched on bad first dates, great first dates, bad second dates, and days, months, and years of these emotional rollercoasters [...] [...] I have touched on bad first dates, great first dates, bad second dates, and days, months, and years of these emotional rollercoasters [...]

]]> By: Dumped by Text: “It’s Ovr. Pls dn’t h8 me.” | The Daters http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-273 Dumped by Text: “It’s Ovr. Pls dn’t h8 me.” | The Daters Fri, 09 Apr 2010 16:13:27 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-273 [...] you’ve gone out once or twice, but you just weren’t feeling “it”, and actually thought the non-feeling was mutual.  But then out of nowhere your phone rings.  Wtf!?!  Do you have a break-up talk?  No, of [...] [...] you’ve gone out once or twice, but you just weren’t feeling “it”, and actually thought the non-feeling was mutual.  But then out of nowhere your phone rings.  Wtf!?!  Do you have a break-up talk?  No, of [...]

]]> By: Bathroom Floor Beauty | unbrelievable http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-248 Bathroom Floor Beauty | unbrelievable Tue, 06 Apr 2010 03:36:02 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-248 [...] you heard about one of my worst first dates. Well, what about one of the best first dates I’ve ever had, only to be shortly followed by [...] [...] you heard about one of my worst first dates. Well, what about one of the best first dates I’ve ever had, only to be shortly followed by [...]

]]> By: adam http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-238 adam Fri, 02 Apr 2010 02:07:57 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-238 hey, i know more guys do it than everyone would expect, but thats also why most guys are jerks. I'll tell you why they think they can get away with it too. The guys i know that are like this either 1) simply just suck and are not good with women or 2) think they're great and expect their man prowess to get them places<br>In both cases i'd think that this type of guy is a complete waste of your time. <br><br>The thing to remember are that if you walk past a guy on the street or are on a subway or at a bar and you smile at him, he immediately assumes you want him. Thats how quickly us guys react: smile=bed in the brain of a man.<br><br>So I'm guessing something along the way made him think you were into him (i'm not saying you did anything that you shouldn't have, just remember if a guy smells a rose he automatically assumes theres an entire field behind him... if you catch my drift) or maybe he just thought you were hot and shot for the stars.<br><br>Either way though it sounds like he ended up being a dud and as you said, a lesson to all of us guys is that 5min is all it takes to come up with a date idea<br>great stuff breanna :) hey, i know more guys do it than everyone would expect, but thats also why most guys are jerks. I'll tell you why they think they can get away with it too. The guys i know that are like this either 1) simply just suck and are not good with women or 2) think they're great and expect their man prowess to get them places
In both cases i'd think that this type of guy is a complete waste of your time.

The thing to remember are that if you walk past a guy on the street or are on a subway or at a bar and you smile at him, he immediately assumes you want him. Thats how quickly us guys react: smile=bed in the brain of a man.

So I'm guessing something along the way made him think you were into him (i'm not saying you did anything that you shouldn't have, just remember if a guy smells a rose he automatically assumes theres an entire field behind him… if you catch my drift) or maybe he just thought you were hot and shot for the stars.

Either way though it sounds like he ended up being a dud and as you said, a lesson to all of us guys is that 5min is all it takes to come up with a date idea
great stuff breanna :)

]]> By: skinny_dip http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-235 skinny_dip Tue, 30 Mar 2010 22:52:13 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-235 I didn't realize hockey was something people were supposed to "grow out of". My 85 year old grandparents are the biggest Canucks fans I know in real life. I'm sure this guy would think they were hopelessly immature! ha. But seriously, WTF-is this guy actually Canadian?!!<br><br>I agree on all your first date 'must-do's'. Here is a link to my worst first date. It involves freestyle rapping gone wrong & free movie coupons:<br><br><a href="http://www.skinnydip.ca/?id=9034550017156805585" rel="nofollow">http://www.skinnydip.ca/?id=9034550017156805585</a><br><br>(The fact that this happened when I was in my early 20's makes this slightly more excusable. Guys in their 30's however should know better!!) I didn't realize hockey was something people were supposed to “grow out of”. My 85 year old grandparents are the biggest Canucks fans I know in real life. I'm sure this guy would think they were hopelessly immature! ha. But seriously, WTF-is this guy actually Canadian?!!

I agree on all your first date 'must-do's'. Here is a link to my worst first date. It involves freestyle rapping gone wrong & free movie coupons:

http://www.skinnydip.ca/?id=9034550017156805585

(The fact that this happened when I was in my early 20's makes this slightly more excusable. Guys in their 30's however should know better!!)

]]> By: Breanna Hughes http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-232 Breanna Hughes Tue, 30 Mar 2010 21:17:45 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-232 We met at a bar, so what can I expect, right? Well, don't waste my time. If<br>you are "meh" about me and don't really give a shit, then why even bother?<br>This is an extreme case to make an example for others. I've heard many<br>stories from friends, and experienced things first hand that more guys do<br>this out there than you think. And based on the reactions they/I've received<br>after (this guy continued to text for me a few months afterwards), it might<br>seem like they at least wanted a few dates out of it. Maybe they just want<br>some ass, but this post is telling them that hey, you have to try harder<br>than that for something non-committal even. If he's that lazy when it comes<br>to a date, I can only imagine how lazy he'll be in other areas.<br><br>When I go into a first date, I am never ever thinking "this is going to be a<br>long term relationship". It always starts short term, and could potentially<br>evolve into something more serious. Maybe for some guys it is more black and<br>white.. but this should be even more of a lesson because you never know and<br>you might blow it before you know it.<br><br>It's amazing how high maintenance this is making me sound, but really, I'm<br>just saying what other girls who are afraid of being called high maintenance<br>are afraid to say. Girls that settle for less than what they deserve: a<br>little effort. I can, and have, planned amazing dates in less than 5<br>minutes.<br><br>I bet you're glad you aren't dating me, huh! We met at a bar, so what can I expect, right? Well, don't waste my time. If
you are “meh” about me and don't really give a shit, then why even bother?
This is an extreme case to make an example for others. I've heard many
stories from friends, and experienced things first hand that more guys do
this out there than you think. And based on the reactions they/I've received
after (this guy continued to text for me a few months afterwards), it might
seem like they at least wanted a few dates out of it. Maybe they just want
some ass, but this post is telling them that hey, you have to try harder
than that for something non-committal even. If he's that lazy when it comes
to a date, I can only imagine how lazy he'll be in other areas.

When I go into a first date, I am never ever thinking “this is going to be a
long term relationship”. It always starts short term, and could potentially
evolve into something more serious. Maybe for some guys it is more black and
white.. but this should be even more of a lesson because you never know and
you might blow it before you know it.

It's amazing how high maintenance this is making me sound, but really, I'm
just saying what other girls who are afraid of being called high maintenance
are afraid to say. Girls that settle for less than what they deserve: a
little effort. I can, and have, planned amazing dates in less than 5
minutes.

I bet you're glad you aren't dating me, huh!

]]> By: Breanna Hughes http://www.unbrelievable.com/first-date-faux-pas/comment-page-1#comment-233 Breanna Hughes Tue, 30 Mar 2010 21:15:47 +0000 http://www.unbrelievable.com/?p=697#comment-233 Also, he's not into me either. It's all good. Also, he's not into me either. It's all good.

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